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Username: Str8but
Gender: Male
Earned Points: 134488
Relationship: In a Relationship
Birthdate: 12-10-1981
My Website: http://grou.ps/clubsinsational
Ethnicity: White
Body Type: Atheletic
Children: No Answer
Sexual Orientation: Straight
I'm here for: Networking
Education: Ph.D.
Religion: Christian
Smoking: Yes
Drinking: Yes

About Me

I am 30 yrs old and I love the beach. I make my home in NYC for the summer and in Treasure Island, FL for the winter. My 6 yr marriage ended tragically when I discovered my wife in bed with my childhood friend. I spent the time until my divorce surfing the web and getting high, trying to dull the pain of a heart not just broken but shredded beyond recognition. After many agonizing meetings, court appearances and a ton of $$$ that was finally over. I owe my life to two very special people, Mom who handled every aspect of the legal issues for me and Matt my best friend and confidant who has been my strength and savior both then and now. My love for them both has no limits or boundaries. Right now there isn't a woman in this world that I trust (except for Mom of course). Fortunately, I don't have to work thanks to my Dad. His love and wisdom has ensured a comfortable life by way of a trust fund. As the New Year approached it started a new chapter in my life. I decided that this chapter will be written without rules and labels. People get so hung up on these things. I have decided that as long as your a good person and treat others as you want to be treated then what difference does it make who your friends are, where you live and who you sleep with.At the end of the day, all that matters is that you are happy with yourself. Life is weird and this will pass (hopefully before I fry every brain cell in my head). Would love to hear from some of you and maybe, we can share an umbrella in the sunshine one day. In the meantime, be good to each other, after all , we are all we got. Str8



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  • jakes1981 @ 10:37 pm CST: I don't rate often unless it's an outstanding video -- HD quality, good content, on-topic gay (not lesbian or str8), and interesting (not the same-old same-old). Those get a 5. If I give less than that, it's for poor quality or someone uploading their own stuff over and over.
  • jakes1981 @ 10:35 pm CST: I missed this conversation from earlier. dettlev, webmaster does not rate the videos, the members do.
  • Josh078 @ 05:16 pm CST: @ Dettlev Someone here likes going through the Videos and giving people 3 stars he/she does it to everyone .
  • dettlev @ 05:03 pm CST: Hi Webmaster !! Please can you tell me on what criteria do you use to Rate a Particular Video a Star rating. Thanks
  • dettlev @ 04:59 pm CST: Hi!! Wemaster
  • dettlev @ 04:59 pm CST: Hi!! Wemaster
  • Str8but @ 11:21 am CST: Well if I can throw my two cents in, I would have to say "MISSION ACCOMPLISHED". Life is far from perfect and never will be. Keep up the good work and lets just enjoy the show!!!
  • webmaster @ 09:38 am CST: Thanks for that comment, I do my best and don't always get it right BUT i always listen to comments and I will change anything to make Boyztube the best on the web.
  • jakes1981 @ 09:00 am CST: Also, it's fairly easy to get around the watermark if anyone knows how. I do admire Webmaster John for his tolerance. Those who abuse could just as easily be kicked off the site for good instead of having a privilege removed. You've heard before that we often complain about seeing the same vids over and over. Now I see how that happens. Sad, really.
  • webmaster @ 07:29 am CST: Its all done by the software, we don't see the video until its launched on the site like everybody else. Good idea if it was possible.
  • Irlskin @ 07:13 am CST: Webmaster, yes I get that the watermark is added during the processing stage. What I am suggesting is that you review the upload before it goes for processing. Once you review it and see there are no existing watermarks you send it on for processing.
  • webmaster @ 07:09 am CST: Not possible because the watermark is added when the video is encoding I thought of changing the position of the watermark but felt this was a better option but open to suggestions.
  • Irlskin @ 07:05 am CST: Webmaster... so what you are saying is, you only review the videos after they have been processed and the watermark has been added... so can I suggest you change that so you see the upload before the processing begins and any existing watermarks are visible. Then you know what is new and what is not???
  • webmaster @ 07:04 am CST: Thanks Guyforguy, we try to be very fair, I know you spend a lot of time flagging so it might cut that work down.
  • Guyforguy @ 06:55 am CST: I just got an mail from BT, and for me it sounds reasonable.
  • webmaster @ 06:54 am CST: The watermark exactly covers the old watermark so we can't tell. I have to take note of flagged videos then look at the members videos uploaded to see if they are uploading the same video, Takes ages. We thought that being proactive and allowing members like yourself to download was the best of both worlds.
  • Kevinjack @ 06:53 am CST: Hi love to upload some spunk in you ass ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,kj
  • Guyforguy @ 06:51 am CST: did i mis anything?
  • Irlskin @ 06:48 am CST: Webmaster... with respect. all the videos have 'watermarks' so if someone is trying to upload existing content it would be obvious. It is almost impossible to know if a video your are genuinely uploading already exists.. members often use different titles and even if you try to search to see if content is already uploaded, it is unlikely you will find it. So not everyone is deliberately uploading existing content.
  • Brislhy @ 06:42 am CST: Thanks for your explanation, Webmaster.

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